AMEN to this — but there is the matter of forgiveness, of course! We can’t change the fact that something painful happened. We can’t change the fact that hurtful, evil people exist.
They may claim they “don’t have time” for you (but they apparently do for everyone else including your children)… they’d rather talk behind your back about you, instead of to your face… they go out of their way to do hurtful things.
WHY? Maybe their actions are driven by their own pain, feeling jealous, unworthy, wanting to seem powerful (when they’re not) — any number of things.
We can’t change the fact that these people feel as they do and act as they do. BUT we can control how we handle troubling issues and difficult people in our lives.
In the truest sense, all relationships matter. How we handle these painful situations impacts our lives in far greater ways than playing the victim card or giving in, allowing them to control life.
Forgiving these hurtful people — even if they won’t hear you (because they won’t listen or are no longer alive) — allows us to release that pain and be done with it all!
Forgiving begins with care, and ends with “I forgive you,” all covered in prayer.
Set yourself free of the unwanted (likely unwarranted) pain by forgiving. Sounds good, doesn’t it? You can do this! How do I know? Because I already did😊 Writing to encourage you!
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