🛑 The Secret to STOP Worrying About What’s Next

🌀WHEREVER you — and  we — are today, this is NOT The End of the Story!

Some days it seems like the world blowing up everywhere and fires are ablaze all around us. To some it appears “the end is near” as doomsday sign-toting promoters predicted for ages. Let’s dial that all back and pause here for a moment to reflect…

Worry costs us dearly. Life becomes less about who we are as see happiness and freedom slip just out of reach. The painful result is too much time spent overthinking and long days filled with anxiety. 

Do you find yourself wanting to stop thinking “when this is over, I’ll be able to…” Allowing worry to live with us negatively impacts every moment of our lives. This also affects the lives of those around us. It’s a real Joy stealer! 

Everyone experiences moments of concern and yes — worry. Gaining a new perspective can end the ‘doom and gloom’ spiral. I have a powerful solution to share that will help you stop worrying about what’s next and start living again.

I know it’s hard to believe we don’t need to be overly concerned or work harder to “fix” problems and resolve challenges. This type of thinking is counter to how most of us live life. As a huge DIY’er myself I know — I’ve been there, too! In fact, it sounds downright lazy, when you think about it.

BUT the truth is we don’t have to worry about “what’s next” or struggle to make things better. Does this sound too good to be possible? It does! Let me share some inspiring insight I discovered that helped me understand how this can happen…

😃Here are encouraging words for anyone in the midst of life challenges and crazy-chaotic times so many are experiencing…

Let’s read this and I’ll meet you on the other side of the passage below:

“For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever! 

So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.”

~ 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 [New Living Translation]

🤷‍♀️HOW do we do this??? By reframing everything.

HOW we do this is by reframing everything not in the way we see/feel/think but rather with God’s perspective (through prayer and according to His Word). This allows us FREEDOM from being stuck in a place holding us captive. By letting go of where we are (or were), we are freed from a limiting mindset we placed on ourselves.

It’s easy to see things only with our own personal viewpoint. We’re sure we know everything surrounding an issue. In reality we’re armed only with part of the story. We’re not seeing the whole picture. It’s not possible.

Even so, we often feel fully confident to forge ahead making (what we believe to be) ‘informed’ decisions, taking ‘effective’ actions, basing it all on partial information. No surprise when this leads to mistakes and creating bigger messes!

The truth is we can’t know all there is to know. How humbling is the day when we discover we are much more limited than most of us want to admit!

When we are willing to let go of what holds us back from seeing things more clearly, we are able to consider issues more objectively. We can do this when fully embrace what our (yes — yours and my) heavenly Father has for us♥️He sees things differently. He sees the Big Picture. He knows what’s ahead!

When we seek Him first, He will bless us with insight and understandings we cannot gain entirely on our own.

We can rest assured He is faithful in keeping His promises. He never leaves us alone to fend for ourselves in a mess. He will hold us close, bringing us through.

You can rely on Him every time. We do this when we seek Him first, tossing our concerns to the side by embracing His guidance and wisdom. (SEE: 1 Chronicles 16:11) He’s waiting to hear from you. His solutions are always appropriate!

🤨And how do I know, you may wonder… I have emerged (maybe as you have) from heart-wrenching situations requiring effective answers …I have been presented with difficult life circumstances I could do nothing about to “fix” or personally ‘make better.’ These circumstances  changed my life forever💔

As a follower of Christ, I got through them by relying on Him. In so doing, I experienced His Peace, comfort and protection shielding me throughout the ordeal and afterward. 

Perhaps you have experienced this as well, and just needed to hear this encouraging reminder to help you on your way. If you have never sought His amazing wisdom and guidance through life’s hard spaces, I highly recommend!

My hope and prayer is anyone who needs to hear this message finds encouragement here for the journey ahead…

So if you’re having some hard times now, I hope you’ll consider handing it all over to The One Who is able. If you haven’t experienced this or find yourself caught up in a mess, I hope you’ll give this a try because God has an appropriate solution for any problem or situation you have♥️

🔭 Putting it all into perspective: Not diminishing even a bit of what’s going on in life right now — but: a moment in our life today is not even a blip on the timeline of human existence for all time. He has this! He loves all of us! I’m so glad He is in charge💜

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Wonder If You’re WORTHY?

When we measure our sense of worthiness based on the world around us, we are led to a deep, dark place of inadequacy. Some people never escape this trap. Learn the secret of your worthiness… Find out why you are worthy — a worthiness that can never be undone – OR – outdone!

Wonder if you're worthy?

Who doesn’t want more peace and meaningful, life-enriching relationships in their life? Most often we feel loved, valued and healthy when we have strong relationships. Building healthy relationships takes time. 

At some point, everyone struggles with relationships. Sometimes relationships are not supportive or caring, no matter how we try our best to nurture them. Relationships naturally  involve more than just ‘me’ – OR – ‘you! Relationships involve two or more… BUT being dynamic, things happen! Like…

Suddenly — your best friend disappears😯 Likely our friends didn’t abandon us because they didn’t really care… but maybe things are different now😭Whatever their reasons may be, they aren’t able to go further with us on this journey. 

If we’re honest with ourselves, this is probably (in part) because they don’t have the deeply wired default connection inherently born into a family.  As close as we thought we are (or at one time were), that strong bond no longer exists.

😳Did You Know: FAMILY teaches us how to extend grace!  It may surprise you to realize — as it did me — that family actually gives us ample opportunity to learn to live at peace with and extend grace ongoing to others! There are benefits WHEN we allow these lessons!

Life can be challenging! But difficult, uncaring, unloving people often leave us wondering how to handle troubling situations and how to treat them when they make things so hard 🤷‍♀️

As a guide for all of us, in Ephesians 4:31-32, Paul tells us where to find encouragement and strength to help us through hard times with difficult people in our life..

Paul clearly explains how we should treat and address others: 

“Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk. 

Be gentle with one another, sensitive. 

Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.”

So applying this as you go about your day…

Think about those who always seem so easy to forgive… and remember those who are more difficult for you to pour grace over.  

Pray God’s guidance in your next steps to heal your most troubling relationships. He is always with us, even in our darkest days, and when we feel abandoned by those we thought loved us most.

Above all else, we mustn’t forget “Whose” we are. As believers, we are children of the Most High. The Creator of the Universe. He has never left our side. He loves each of us — every.one more than we can imagine! 

By this very fact  we are indeed WORTHY. We need not seek approval from others, live to please others, or put on a good show for love and attention. No. We are above that. We are beyond that. 

We are worthy by virtue of God’s great love and generous grace available for us every moment of our lives. NO one can top that!

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Embracing lies as misguided life truths costs us dearly. Allowing lies to live with us enables them to impact every moment of our lives negatively. Entrusted with unlimited access, they wield significant influence, including our innermost thoughts. The sad result is not being free to live as our heavenly Father intended.

Kicking life-wrecking lies to the curb isn’t easy. But — living with lies is more challenging because it gives them direct control over life. In their presence, life becomes less about who we are, and more about the lies taking up residence with us, as uninvited guests.

In Kick Life-Wrecking Lies to the Curb, author Becky Cortino explains: 

  • How lies easily captivate hearts and minds everywhere
  • 10 ways lies live with us for as long as we permit
  • 7 principles for lie-free living
  • Sure-fire steps to break free of lies – banishing them forever  


After 5 years of research, study, writing, and hearing beautiful forgiveness stories, Becky’s book “Restoring the Broken Places in an Unforgiving World” was published in 2020. She then realized the great need to help hurting hearts address issues that create a fertile environment for pain-filled relationships and unwanted brokenness requiring grace. “Kick Life-Wrecking Lies to the Curb” begins this journey.


Isn’t it time to stand up to the lies and start living the life you were meant to live?


Don’t settle for less. Kick the lies to the curb and accept God’s best for your life!

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The Holidays Are Coming!!!

Kick Life-Wrecking Lies To The Curb Book by Becky Cortino

Hard to believe — BUT — the holidays are just around the corner, aren’t they? ?

Are you ready for them? ? So many details… so many preparations and so much more… Unfortunately gatherings sometimes bring challenges and unforeseen difficulties.  Tensions can run high ?Anxiety can grow so big that joy gets crowded out. 

Unfortunately gatherings sometimes bring challenges and unforeseen difficulties. Holidays don’t always bring the best out in people. 

It’s not easy to be prepared for relational issues that develop or become inflamed during these times ? It’s hard to stand ready for ANYthing that can happen — most of which you probably couldn’t predict or imagine.

When the dreaded mishap or a major eruption does happen, it often makes you feel like you had better walk on eggshells if you want to keep the peace — possibly in your own home?‍?

Are you feeling a bit anxious? Who wouldn’t?! What to do?

I suggest my newest book which deals squarely and candidly with challenges just like this:

Kick Life-Wrecking Lies to the Curb! Letting Go of the Lies Keeping You From Living with Heart and Soul

We all struggle to remain in control of our lives. Isn’t it time to stand up to the lies and live the life you were meant to live? Don’t settle for less. Kick the lies to the curb and accept God’s best for your life!

Embracing lies costs us dearly. Life becomes less about who we are, and more about the lies living with us. They stick around for as long as we allow.

After 7 years of research, deep-dive study, and writing about building healthy relationships, I realized the need for encouragement and insight into issues that create a fertile environment for pain-filled relationships.

Kick Life-Wrecking Lies to the Curb! Letting Go of the Lies Keeping You From Living with Heart and Soul is written from a biblical perspective, offering tried-and-true solutions to some of life’s most nagging relational issues.

Learn effective strategies and discover:

  • How lies easily captivate hearts and minds everywhere
  • 10 ways lies take up residence
  • 7 principles for lie-free living
  • Sure-fire steps to break free of lies – banishing them

Kick Life-Wrecking Lies to the Curb! Letting Go of the Lies Keeping You From Living with Heart and Soul is available in paperback and ebook formats on Amazon; also on Barnes & Nobel, Walmart and Lulu:

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Let’s KICK those Life-wrecking Lies to the Curb (everyone has them!)  and all have a better 2024, please??

Resources for You:

Over the last 8 years, I have created resources to help you and those you care about, wherever you are in your life at this moment:

❤️‍ Broken2Breakthrough – You CAN Transform Your Life One Relationship at a Time! https://Broken2Breakthrough.com

♥️Resources for REAL Life: https://www.restoringthebrokenplaces.com/realliferesources/

Building Healthy Relationships and Finding Forgiveness: http://ForgivenessBook.BeckyCortino.org

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